Tuesday, May 24, 2016

Finding your Absolute Yes: Get Out of Your Own Way...Bring It On World!

Your YES
Your YOU
quietly saying:
Bring it on WORLD
I'm ready for this
new experience
 and I'm ready
to say..."Absolutely, Yes"  
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How many times have we decided on or committed to something and then because we second guess ourselves, our decision changes?  Sometimes, you can be so sure that the decision you made is the right one for you and even in knowing that, you find it hard to say "yes"!
The homework has been done, you've checked and re-checked the details and prior history but still your intuition says, "no", not now.  Why is that?  Why do we find comfort in sometimes having someone else validate, what we already know? 


What's in your way?  
How would it look if you decided to just "go for it"? 
Who is affected by your decision? 

These are just a few things we think about, when trying to make both, easy and tough decisions.  When you just don't know which way to go, that's a case of "in your own way".  Unfortunately, our minds can play tricks on us by convincing us that we really don't know what to do, when in fact we really do!

 Many times, if you've done the legwork and thoroughly looked at all sides, all corners, up and down, then your first feeling, is usually the right feeling you need, as confirmation.  It should be enough to move forward with making a firm decision and saying "yes" emphatically!   No if, ands or buts about it...you tracking?
Don't always believe that other people are in your corner, have your back or want the best for you.  That's just reality and the real truth!  Sometimes, they know less or nothing about what you want to do, with the choice you need to make. If you have someone in your life that can truly be open and honest with you about your concerns, then that is the person you should lean on for help with making your decision.  You know they have your best interest at heart and they care about you. 
Life is tough and sometimes we just don't know if we should go right or left.  The unforeseen is scary and a lot of times, that's what prevents us from making decisions that are our choice. 


"Life can be Bitter but it gets Better"... Yes???  (Gospel song by Jessica Reedy...luv!)
Don't be afraid to try something new or to move forward in a direction that could introduce you to something new, just as I try to do here, at LOFT101.net (my tagline..LOL!)

Get out of your own way and welcome the challenges, changes and wonderfully new things that are out there just waiting for you and your absolute yes!! 
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