Tuesday, February 14, 2017

Happy Valentines Day...A Day Of Validation!

Happy Valentine's Day!
Validation is recognition or affirmation that a person or their feelings or opinions are valid or worthwhile.
A box of candy, a bouquet of flowers or perhaps a night out on the town are always some of the very best gifts you could receive on Valentine's Day.   The greeting card that says "I love you" for so many reasons or a shiny diamond ring with a proposal you have waited to hear for so long, are also awesome gifts to receive on this day that we celebrate LOVE.   However, everyone won't receive these gifts.  Some won't even get a card or phone call simply because that's just the way it is.

As a Certified Professional Coach, brownstonecoaching.com, I've learned through experience and relationships that none of the above matters much to many people, anymore.  Today with the climate of the happenings in this different world we live in and trends moving us through time so quickly, people just want to hear you say thank you, I love you or how are you.  Show up to visit me for no reason and I'm happy all day long.  Pray for me when I don't ask and I'm grateful.  Share your time and I'll remember you long after the favor is done.  Write me, text me or call me and I'll forget the last time that you didn't.  Yes, none of these things cost a penny to do.  Kindness is the best gift one could ever receive.
Validation makes a person feel valued.  When someone looks past your faults and loves you anyway!  To know me is to love me is the assurance in knowing that everyone that you are truly and honestly connected to, loves you anyhow!
Have A Wonderful Day... 
Happy Validation Day!
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